Because you can’t truly offer to others what you do not have…

Before you make and honour your appointment with the doctor(maybe because of an ailment or just for checkup)you are the first doctor to yourself.

This also applies to love and how you give it to yourself or to others.Be affectionate about yourself, adorn Your self with love first,then out of the impeccable treasures of bliss built in you by you,will you offer to others.